I still get confused sideways looks when I tell folks I'm a student. I can't blame them. I suppose it is something of a novelty for someone over 40 to still be an undergrad—albeit, not as much as it once was. I have often questioned my sanity since I decided to finish my degree after a nearly 20 year hiatus. The school I attend, Union Institute and University, caters to adult students and most students I have met there are over 30. The winter semester starts this weekend. It will be my culminating term at UI & U. It has been one hell of a journey. When I separated from the military in 1992, I attended Charleston Southern University for one year. After that, life's circumstances forced me to take on a full-time job to support a new family. I told myself, “one day I'll finish what I started.” But, like so many “someday” promises we make to ourselves, the weeks, months, and years started slipping away without the fulfillment of the dream. It took another life changing event to thrust me back into academia. They say every cloud has a silver lining, and returning to school was mine. When the economy tanked in 2008, the prospects for jobs looked particularly bleak. After many dead-end searches, I thought that just maybe this was the time to pick up where I left off with my computer science degree. Knowing me better than I know myself, a friend asked me why I wasn't going to go after a degree in something I really enjoyed. “Because there is no money in what I enjoy,” was my reply. Wisely, he chided back, “You have to do what you love or you will not be successful at it anyway.” Though I readily dismissed his advice, the seed was planted. I started doing internet searches for colleges with English, literature, or creative writing degrees. Now over two years later, I find myself wrapping up a degree with emphasis in writing and literature.
So, what are my resolutions for this year? They are arranged in tiers. The most important one for me is to cling to the moments I have with my children, friends, and other family members--to perfect "living in the moment." Then there is the “hum-drum” tier of resolutions that nearly everyone makes like, to lose weight, stay on a schedule, and write more, among others. Professionally, I will be more focused. The search has begun for a publisher for my nearly completed novel manuscript, Good Bye, Delicate Strangers, and an institution to complete my graduate work--both tasks are bound to bring many disappointments. My shell is not so hard and that needs some work too. Wish me luck.
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